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A loss of a loved one due to a terminal illness or sudden demise ignites financial and business mayhem and creates a crisis for entire families. In addition, the lack of information on the family financials and important documents further adds to the hardship. Years later families receive mail from financial institutions regarding fixed deposits, investment in stocks & bonds about which they had no prior knowledge or information. Having gone through the pain and agony of trying to find out the information after the loss of his father and with his in-depth technology experience, our founder set out to fix this problem and MyInformationVault was born. MyInformationVault allows users to securely store their important financial and other essential information, which needs to be passed on after their death or incapacitation. Users have peace of mind knowing that chosen recipients will only be given the information that is specified for them promptly after the user’s death certificate is verified. Planning for the financial and general well-being of your family after you pass away has entered into the digital age, and in conjunction with MyInformationVault’s easy to use service, here are a few other very important steps which need to be taken; estate planning, wills, and trusts.

Estate planning is important and can help prevent a lot of burden after the loss of a loved one. When understanding estate planning, the most important question is why create a trust? Over time, people have used trusts as a way of mitigating taxes which would otherwise be payable. There are four types of tax that can affect you and your estate. There is corporation, capital gains, inheritance, & income tax. This is why estate planning is so important.  Believe it or not everyone has an estate no matter how large or small it may be. Your estate consists of things such as you car, home, bank accounts, life insurance policies, & personal possessions. Many individuals put off estate planning because they think that they do not own enough, they are not old enough, they are confused and they don’t know who can help them, or they just do not want to think about it.  The point is you do not want to your family to be left in a difficult situation when losing a loved one. Emotionally it is a difficult time, and by limiting the amount of informational gaps, you can help make the process a lot smoother for you and your family. Benefits to estate planning include tax purposes, proper instructions for the dispersion of your assets, and peace of mind.

Estate plans begin with either a will or a trust. As mentioned, we are here to bring you clarity to this topic and help you understand that estate planning is not as complicated as most believe. A will provides instructions but involves probate. Probate varies from state to state, but a will must go through the state’s probate process before it can be distributed to heirs.  Your executor must find, secure, and manage your assets during the probate process, which can range from a few months to over a year. Depending on the contents of your will and on the amount of your debts, the executor may have to decide whether or not to sell your real estate, securities, or other assets. A will can become expensive and bring vast amounts of legal, executor, and court fees. When creating a will, you must know that the court controls the process, not your family. Most families prefer a trust because you can avoid probate at death especially if there is property owned in other states.

Unlike a will, a trust does not end when you pass away. Assets can stay in the trust until your beneficiaries reach a certain age to inherit.  Your trust can continue longer to provide for a loved one with special needs, or to protect the assets from beneficiaries’ creditors, spouses, and irresponsible spending. Although living trusts are more expensive than wills, you are able to avoid the court fees, which make them a better option.

Have you ever wondered what happens to your Facebook account or social media when you pass away?  Due to this huge wave in social media and technology, it has become more common for all of us to have digital assets, and it’s important they are included in your estate planning. An average person has roughly $35,000 worth of assets stored on digital devices. These assets are at risk of being lost forever when the owner dies. Why not pass them on to your loved ones? Due to this recent concern many companies have put into effect, more customer friendly laws to help aid this issue. Ways that you can help is to take digital inventory; gather your passwords, and be specific when completing your power attorney. Authorize someone you trust to deal with your digital assets and online accounts. When estate planning, remember to realize that it does not matter how much or how little it is, it’s still important to be prepared.

We would invite you to visit to try our free 14 day trial. With MyInformationVault you will be able designate WHO will receive your information WHEN they need it the most. Upload all of your important information for organization and dissemination. Don’t wait and plan ahead give you and immortalize your information…

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The Missing Piece to the Financial Puzzle

Most financial professionals specialize in financial, retirement, insurance, and estate planning. In doing so, they usually utilize a holistic planning process designed to review and optimize all areas of a client’s financial needs. However, studies reveal that most “successful” financial professionals choose to specialize in a particular niche. In other words, they focus the majority of time, energy, and resources at a target market — with the goal of establishing themselves as the “go-to” expert for a particular product or service.

Some of the most common niches in our industry are:

  • Wealth and investment management
  • Life, disability, and/or long-term care insurance
  • Retirement planning
  • Estate and legacy planning

Your End of Life Planning Niche is Here

Question: “Have you adequately prepared yourself and your family for your eventual death?” This may be an unpleasant question, but nonetheless it is one you should be able to answer. The reason why is because one day we will all die. Death is something we cannot predict, postpone, or avoid. I once heard someone say; “God promises us eternity, but He never promises us tomorrow”. Every financial services professional knows for certain their clients are guaranteed to face this extremely difficult situation, either directly or indirectly, at some point in their future. We also know this guaranteed event is accompanied by extremely difficult emotional and financial decisions.

However, almost nobody we know can answer this question: “If a death had occurred in your family last night… what would you be doing right now?” Every financial professional has a unique opportunity right now to serve an exponentially growing niche of individuals and families. Every day there are families who are seeking the professional services and guidance you can potentially offer. And by doing so, you can serve a niche that has little to no competition. This unique opportunity will add value to clients and practice, and allow you become the credible “go-to” professional that so many families are searching for. The bad news is our industry has yet to offer the comprehensive training and education needed to become more comfortable, confident, and better equipped to professionally serve “the death conversation”. The good news is I am fully confident this will change in the coming years. Soon financial professionals will open up a world of opportunity as they gain access to the necessary training, tools and resources to help them step out of their comfort zone — and step into a new niche to serve more clients.

“The Death Conversation” is a Good Thing

A recent survey from The Washington Post revealed that more than 90% of people believe it is a good idea to have “the death conversation”, and also believe it is a good idea to document their final plans and preferences in advance. However, less than 10% have actually had “the death conversation”, much less proactively started making any formalized End of Life Plan.

Talking About Death is Taking Flight

Mark my words. In the coming years “the death conversation” will be a standard and routine part of our job and our industry. In fact, just over the past several years I have watched death talk grow into a much more common and acceptable topic. Below are a few examples to support this explosive trend:

  • The Social Security Administration is increasingly educating Americans and seniors about pre-planning and pre-funding funeral arrangements. • Most long-term care facilities require advanced funeral and cemetery arrangements before allowing admission.
  • Death Cafés and Death Dinner Parties are becoming increasingly popular in the U.S. and other countries.

So when you factor in the aging population of Baby Boomers, the advent of the Internet and the explosion in technology, the trend of talking about death is in the early stages of exponential growth curve.

Are You a “Death Planner”?

Most Funeral Directors will readily accept and acknowledge the fact that they are “death planners”. On the contrary, most financial professionals would cringe at the thought of being referred to as a “death planner”. But like it or not, many financial professionals are “death planners”.

Some of the most common “death planning” products and strategies in the financial services industry are life insurance, long-term care, and estate planning. Life insurance is a product primarily designed to replace income in the event of an unexpected death. Long-term care insurance is a product primarily designed to help fund a person’s medical and nonmedical needs for an extended period of time prior to death. Estate planning is a strategy primarily designed to provide the proper and timely distribution of personal and/or family wealth upon death.

When a financial services professional sells a term, whole life, or long-term care insurance policy — or an Estate Attorney creates a Traditional Will or Living Trust — the harsh reality is they are “death planners”. In other words, the value offered from their professional products and services is accomplished by putting a plan in place for death. The primary objective of these “death plans” is to minimize the significant emotional and financial damages and losses associated with death. So like it or not, many financial professionals are actually “death planners”.

 It’s Only Too Soon…Until It’s Too Late

As you know by now I firmly believe the financial services industry needs to help us become trained, educated, and well-versed to assist our clients regarding the following four facts:

  1. Death is a guaranteed event which we cannot predict, avoid, or postpone.
  2. When a death occurs, there are approximately 150 difficult decisions that need to be made within a 24-48 hour period.
  3. Dying is expensive, and these costs will only grow over time. The average cost of a traditional funeral today is $15,000- $20,000.
  4. When faced with planning a funeral, most families are largely unfamiliar, uncomfortable, and unprepared.

Clearly this is not a good scenario for someone to make important emotional and financial decisions. I cannot stress enough how important it is for every financial professional to begin to accept death, embrace “the death conversation”, and start adding this unique and growing niche — all of which are guaranteed to help your clients and their families make a difficult situation easier. It is time for change in our industry, and my prayer is that I help make a small contribution towards something that is so large and important.

I leave you with this important parting thought. The most common statement I hear when it comes to End of Life Planning is; “I don’t need to do this now. It’s too soon.” Well, I can assure you from my own personal experience and years of extensive work in the death care industry, it’s only too soon — until it’s too late.

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The death of a loved one is never easy

The death of a loved one is never easy. When my wife’s mother passed away a few years ago it was especially difficult for our family because my mother-in-law and wife were extremely close. They would talk on the phone every day or see each other and share stories, bits of news regarding the kids or other conversations that only a mother and daughter can share.

Her passing left a tremendous void in our family, and although I am blessed in that both of my parents are still alive, as an estate attorney I can guarantee two things: 1) families and friends feel a tremendous loss when a mother, father, sibling, child or friend passes away, and 2) as much as we try to avoid the issue, we will all pass in the future leaving behind someone who cares deeply for us.

Every time I meet with a family to work on an estate I express my sympathies for their loss and try to accommodate them during this most difficult process. Inevitably, the surviving children or relatives read the Last Will and Testament and then ask me questions. How does this work? What does this mean? Since I am trained to follow through on the intentions of the testator (the decedent who left a Will), the family members find very little comfort in the last “words” of their loved one being included in a document with other legal jargon such as “residuary estate” or “beneficiaries”.  I quickly realized a Last Will and Testament (or a Trust) are not the words of the deceased loved one – rather, they are the words of an attorney who is bound by an unwritten rule: “use traditional legal wording and be as detailed as possible because that is what attorneys do.”

It occurred to me that surviving family members (such as my wife and the countless clients who sit at my table), who spend so much time communicating with mothers/fathers/siblings and friends during life, have no options to re-live or participate in a spontaneous conversation with those who have passed during the days, weeks, months or years after a loss.  From that point I imagined many would invite the opportunity to communicate (in a realistic fashion) with a parent, sibling, child, relative or friend who is gone. Although I have lost grandparents, I would certainly like my mother and father to create messaging for me that I can interact with in the future….whether to wish me a “Happy Birthday” or to remind me of “that time we took the train to California.”  In fact, what if my parents could create messaging with photos, video, or even audio messages that can be delivered and listened to as a spontaneous message on arbitrary dates (“Hi son, just wanted you to know I love you very much and am very proud of you”).

I asked my wife, if she could receive a text or email message from her Mom wishing a Happy Birthday or if she could message her Mom to say how much she missed her, would she want to engage in that type of messaging? My wife answered “that would be amazing.”

With this in mind, I set out on a path toward building a website application that allows all of us who are living to prepare an account that can be activated and interacted with by those who we designate as survivors. This concept is something I refer to as “survivor messaging” or “legacy media”.  Although “legacy media” presently refers to the old style of media (newspapers, magazines and print), I believe it is more accurately defined as our ability to leave a “legacy” (a gift) to our heirs/survivors in the form of interactive, digital media (as opposed to “social media” which involves the immediate communication between two individuals).

After approximately 20 months of planning, drafts, drawings, narratives, patent applications, and meetings with our software company, was born and we are extremely happy to offer Free and Premium subscriptions to those who may want to begin creating an interactive account for the benefit of survivors.

Perhaps the biggest question we have as humans is whether our deceased parents, family and friends understand how they will be missed, how much they are loved and if they are proud of our accomplishments. Through Latertalk, we have the ability to communicate those thoughts to our loved ones through text/email, photo, video and audio formats on various dates throughout the years after our passing. None of us want to leave our loved ones without a legacy…Latertalk allows us to plan for the future by creating an interactive legacy for the benefit of ourselves and our survivors.  Further, Latertalk can afford subscribers the ability to convey other information such as financial information, accounts, passwords/usernames and other private information that they wish to communicate only in the event of the subscriber’s death (see “Digital Death Guide” and recommendations for content therein).

Many who visit may think “I don’t need to create an account now” or “there is no reason to spend a few dollars each month to maintain an interactive digital legacy”. To those individuals I would suggest that none of us know when, how or where we may pass. Preparation for the financial and emotional well-being of our survivors should not be limited to our “later years in life”; rather, we should continue to maintain an ongoing library of messages that reference specific dates, memories and important milestones that can provide our survivors with comfort, advice and a unique, personal and authentic dialogue which can be realized as a Latertalk subscriber.

We would invite you to visit to open a free account and begin your survivor messaging account. As you will see, once your designated survivors confirm their relationship to you, they can suggest the types of messages they would appreciate as your survivor. By creating and storing those messages (either FREE messaging in text format or a Premium account for a small monthly charge) you can leave your family and friends a legacy which cannot be replicated or purchased with any amount of money because your words, photos, video and voice/audio are priceless.